Q&A: HOW DO I GET A SLIGHTLY SHY GIRL TO TALK TO ME?
July 3, 2010 by GirlG
Filed under Girl Talk Tips
Question by Thereminator: How do we get the somewhat bashful lady to speak to me?
There’s the lady who usually shares the single category with me which doesn’t unequivocally speak to me. On assignments she regularly asks me questions initial prior to asking others. She never chats to me upon Facebook, though when we discuss with her, she regularly says I’m “so smartt”. She says she needs assistance in scholarship class. (that the single class) How do we get her to speak to me more?
Best answer:
Answer by TheShah24
Be determined as well as funny. Make her laugh. When she asks for assistance it should be easy to slip in the fun or the dual to have her feel some-more gentle as well as have the some-more amicable atmosphere.
What do we think? Answer below!
whenever she talks to you in class, use that chance!!!
Keep the conversation going and fool around a little.
If she’s shy, you have to show her that she could be more open to you.
remember:GIRLS LOVE FUNNY GUYS
go slow with it…dont overwhelm her….shes shy so just make her feel confident…give her compliments and listen intently when she talks…if she knows that you like talking to her then chances are she’ll talk to you more…you just need to help boost her confidence and show her you have an interest in getting to know her better
GOOD LUCK
well…do you like her? and just talk to her first, make small conversation. talk to her FIRST do you know how nervewrecking it is for a girl to try talking to a guy? especialy if she’s shy. (it doesnt mean she likes you, but just hte thought of talking to a guy probably makes her nervous)
ask to join her in a study session, or offer to tudor her. that’ll give the opportunity to talk and be friendly with her, but not on a total ‘date’ level.
testing the water before you get in the tub.
tell her how shes bin,what does she like to do for fun,also what music she likes,stuff like that then ask her if she would like to chill with you sometime…
just talk to her a lot, and have stuff to talk about, stuff normal people can relate with. there’s nothing worse than a potential conversation being awkward
I’m shy. Really shy. I would love it if a guy just had the courage to come up to me and start talking. I would still be shy, but if he was persistant about it, and not in a weird stalker kind of way, then i would warm up, meaning the guy would be the one to break the ice. Relieves some of the pressure off the girl, you know.
just be yourself and everything will happen on its own. goodluck